嫁の出産137 ～悲劇のヒロイン願望強めの新米ママ（嫁）の対応を教えてください～

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というのも、周りの先輩のお父さんたちから言われていた通りに嫁の感情のアップダウンが激しくなってきた。

いや、ダウンダウン、か。

以前の嫁は一応、キャリアウーマン的な役職にいて月に３０万以上は稼ぐ人だった。

そういう人に多いらしいのだが、会話のできない赤ちゃんと２人っきりの生活が続くことがストレスになるとのこと。

ボクも出来るだけ仕事を早く切り上げて、夜ご飯は嫁と一緒に食べて話せる時間を作るようにしているつもり。

しかしながら、会話の端々にトゲがある。

女子は多かれ少なかれあるのだが、嫁も例の漏れず、悲劇のヒロイン願望が強め。

自分が不憫な状況、不幸な状況が大好物。

なので更にタチが悪い。

少しでも自分の思い通りに行かないと、イコール〝悲しい〟、イコール〝不幸〟、イコール〝落ち込んで泣いて機嫌が悪くなってもいい〟となる。

そしてボクにブツける。

ボクはどうすることも出来ずに、ケンカとは相手を叩きのめすことだと思っている嫁の罵倒、罵声を浴び続ける。

ボクは普通の人よりも罵声や罵倒が心に響かない性格なのだが、それでもさすがに言いすぎだろうと思う程、言う。

嫁がこのまま罵倒や罵声を続けることは嫁自身の精神的に良くないことは明白。

誰か、同じような嫁がいる旦那さん、もしくは自覚のあるママさん、対処法を教えてください。


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◆Wife's pregnancy137　～Please tell me correspondence of a newcomer mama of heroine desire strengthening of tragedy (my wife).～

A blog is raised continuously for 2 days after a long time.
Because ups and downs of wife's feeling have become intense as it was being talked about from senior fathers around.
No, a down down. Or.
A working woman-like executive has the previous wife just in case, and more than 300,000 a month is earned, I grew up.
Such person seems to have, it's said that the baby who can't do conversation and the case that a life of KIRI continues 2 people become stressful.
I stop work early as much as possible, too, and I'm going to decide to have a meal with my wife and make time when you can speak in the evening.
However, there is a prickle in bits and pieces of conversation.
There is a girl more or less, my wife is an example, too, it doesn't leak and I'm rather strong in a heroine desire of tragedy.
The situation that one is pitiful and the unfortunate situation are a favorite.
So it's nastier.
I have to go to the concerned street even a little, it'll be an equal sign "sadly", an equal sign "unhappiness" and an equal sign "I fall, cry and am cross, and it may be.".
And BUTSU is kicked for me.
Without being able to do, how do I keep being bathed in abuse and booing of my wife who thinks a quarrel is to beat a partner up?
I'm the character booing and abuse don't appeal more than an ordinary person, I'll soon say to a limit still that it'll be going too far indeed.
It's obvious that one wouldn't like my wife for my wife's continuing the abuse and the booing just as it is mentally.
Please tell dealing to someone, your husband who has a similar wife or Mr. mama well aware of your responsibility.

thank you